NOW Everyone hates Chris Brown? Call Me Confused! July 21, 2009
Posted by Moonstruck Mommy in Life, Music.Tags: Chris Brown, Chris Browne, Domestic abuse, Domestic violence, Forgiveness, Relationships, Rihanna, violence
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- Chris Brown via last.fm
Alright, you guys are killing me. Before the apology by Chris Brown practically no one wanted to Chris bash with me. But now that he has said “sorry” everyone hates him?? Huh?
I posted the apology yesterday and you can see it here. Look, I’m not saying forgive and forget and let the fucker do it again, I’m just saying what more can he do besides apologize? Will I buy his albums, no, but I’ll stop calling him a woman abuser… for now. People make mistakes all the time and while it sure as hell IS NOT an excuse, him growing up in a violent household is definitely a contributor to his awful behavior.
And the people that are mad that he took so long need to understand the way the system works… NO ONE discusses their case in the middle of it. It’s not like this is his first apology to Rihanna (he’s been doing that for 5 months) this was his apology to us. And I think we have no other choice but to forgive him- I’m not perfect and I’ve needed forgiveness before too! And it is always possible for people to change and better themselves…. Of course, Rihanna should still stay away, but I don’t think we need to banish him to some deserted island just yet! Or, maybe I’m just a sucker for an apology….
Moonstruck Mommy
My other posts about the Chris Brown & Rihanna situation:
Chris and Rihanna apart again…
Chris & Rihanna: More Celebrity Reactions
Chris Brown & Rihanna… back together?
Beat Drums, Not Women April 9, 2009
Posted by Moonstruck Mommy in Life, Music.Tags: abuse, Assault, celebrity, Chris Brown, Chris Browne, Dating Violence, Domestic violence, Plea bargain, Rhianna, Rihanna
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- Image by Getty Images via Daylife
Chris Brown plead not guily, last Monday, to his 2 felony charges of assault and making criminal threats. I have to admit I really expected a plea agreement and I am a little intrigued as to how he plans to get out of this one. First of all the pictures say it loud and clear, second, Rihanna has said that she will testify if called. I really can’t imagine what kind of stacked jury they would need to get a not guilty. And I know Brown is hoping his fame will keep him out of jail, but he should be worried about taking responsiblity for his actions and becoming a better man. If he would have beat a stranger like that he would be in jail for sure, so why is it any different because she was his girlfriend? And I am so glad that Rihanna is still spending time away from him. Hopefully it stays that way and she moves on to bigger and better. Women everywhere need to know that no guy deserves a second chance. Let him fix himself and then come sweep you off your feet…. because a man that hits a woman is a man with bigger issues then you want to deal with.
I don’t care who the guy is, if he hits you then he doesn’t deserve you. period.
And remember:
Before I was with hubbs, I was in an abusive relationship. He choked me on several occasions, kicked me, slammed me against walls, the works… and still to this day I don’t know why I hung around as long as I did. Maybe I thought it was better to have a jackass then nobody at all or maybe I thought it was my fault (I am kinda difficult) but I stayed around for about 4 months of it before I realized I am WAY better then that (and him). And every woman should know she is better then that.
Here are some links about dating and domestic violence for anyone that is interested- (Don’t forget that computer usage can be monitored)
National Coalition Against Domestic Violence
Moonstruck Mommy
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Posted by Moonstruck Mommy in Life.Tags: Chris, Chris Brown, Chris Browne, Dating Violence, Domestic violence, Kris Brown, love, Misdemeanor, Oprah Winfrey, Osama bin Laden, People, Plea bargain, Rhianna, Rihanna, Rosie O'Donnell, Text messaging, Tina Davis, TMZ, TMZ.com, violence, women
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First, a quick update:
- TMZ.com is reporting that the infamous 3 page text message came from Chris’s manager, 39 year old, Tina Davis.
- Chris Brown is trying for a plea agreement that will change his two felonies into misdemeanors and keep him out of jail.
- Nickelodeon will leave the vote up to the kids and not remove Chris Brown from the ballot– despite a twittermom petition to do so.
- Rihanna’s attorney said she will testify against Brown, if called to do so. But she did ask the judge not to ban him from seeing her.
- The couple may be recording a duet about love overcoming challenges. yea, really.
Now for the reactions/quotes of some other celebrities.
“It was a dark time for them and I was there as more of a support. I’m not immersed in [their situation]. I’m not going to pass judgment on it. I’m going to be there as a friend.”
A friend to who though? If he were Rihanna’s friend he would tell her to stay the hell away from Chris, not let them borrow his house for make-up sex. IMO. Obviously.
“Oh, absolutely! I wouldn’t take anybody’s personal issues or problems— I won’t hold them accountable for that when it comes to work. I think it’s two separate things.”
This was Akon’s response when asked if he would work with Chris Brown again. I wonder, if Osama bin Laden wanted to collaborate, would Akon look past personal issues too? This is such a cop-out… I wish these guys would admit they all think Chris is still gonna be worth a bunch on a track and that’s why they wont speak out against what he did.
Finally, people with some sense::::
“It’s so sad. I don’t think anybody knows the whole truth, but I guess the truth really doesn’t matter when [abuse] is the result. That should never happen, no matter what. And I love his music. That being said, I think [about] Rihanna : No girl, no woman, no mother, no sister, no friend, no one deserves that. Absolutely.”
Yep. Sounds good. Thank you, Molly. 
“Chris Brown and Rihanna, if I was your friend, I would call you up and I would say, ‘Give it some time, get yourself some counseling, take care of yourself, Heal yourself first’. And also, love doesn’t hurt. I’ve been saying this to women for years: ‘If a man hits you once, he will hit you again.’ “
Go Oprah!!! And, she is also dedicating this Thursday’s show, about Dating Violence, to all the “Rihanna’s of the world”
“So, especially young women, the time to leave someone who hits you is after the first time… that’s it. Because the chances of them turning around and changing are minimal.”
This is what I have been saying!! Why should she forgive or get back with him. Rihanna said herself that the violence had been escalating. He will do it again.
What do you think about it? Should they be back together? Should people and companies be speaking out against what Brown did?
Moonstruck Mommy
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Posted by Moonstruck Mommy in Life.Tags: 50 cent, Assault, chris brow, Chris Brown, Chris Brown & Rihanna, Chris Browne, Domestic violence, Kanye West, Kris Brown, People, Rhianna, Rihanna, suge knight, Usher, women
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It just gets more and more depressing. I’m not even surprised anymore by the comments celebrities are making about Chris Brown & Rihanna… still disgusted though. Where to begin—
First of all, if they are really married, I will never talk about this stupid situation again! Yuck!! But I don’t think it’s true, so here’s the rest
It seems that with Brown’s impending court date, everyone wants to speak out FOR the young man….
Usher
I missed it, but Usher was quoted as saying this about the pictures of Chris Brown jet skiing in Miami:
“I’m a little disappointed in this photo, Come on Chris, have a little bit of remorse man. …The man’s on jet skis? Like, just relaxing in Miami?”
Go Usher, right? Nope. After his comments were made public Usher issued an apology:
“The comments made during a recent recording session amongst friends were taken out of context and blown out of proportion, I apologize on behalf of myself and my friends if anyone was offended. The intentions were not to pass judgment and we meant no harm. I respect and wish the best for all parties involved.”
Can someone please tell me why on earth we should NOT judge Chris Brown? First of all he is a celebrity and they take that gig knowing full well that they get NO privacy. Second, he broke the law! Third, did people really not see the picture? What he did deserves to be judged, so get over it Chris Brown fans.
Flo Rida
I posted before about his comments that bothered me, but I also stated that he dropped Chris Brown from a song and that was good enough for me. Turns out, he did not drop Brown from the song because of the incident with Rihanna. He even made a point to come out publicly and say this:
“It’s not just that record, there were other records that couldn’t make the album that I wanted to make the album as well, but that was the process – this was way before ever hearing anything about [Brown allegedly beating Rihanna]. This was way before, at least a month. I had been done with this record.”
So, my previous statement about him pretty much having no balls to speak up for women still stands.
Kanye West
Although he has called Rihanna his “baby sis” before, but still had this to say:
“Can’t we give Chris a break? I know I make mistakes in life.”
Now, this was before the picture came out, but still- If I heard some buy beat my little sister up I wouldn’t tell people to give him a break.
Suge Knight
He can say it better then I can type it-
I wonder, Suge, what if he brought her up on stage and beat the hell out of her? Because that was Rihanna’s early birthday present. Maybe Brown should hit up Suge in the future though, he has experience with this sorta thing.
50 cent
After the incident first happened he came out with this (I don’t even know what to call it, animation, video, cartoon, whatever)
Then, after he saw the picture, he said this:
“I thought that was something that you could use for humor, like any other comedian or someone else would utilize current events, After I saw the photographs of Rihanna, that wasn’t funny anymore. There’s a point you’re already past a woman fighting you back, You look at (the photograph), and it obviously went past that point, so there’s some issues there that definitely gotta be addressed. Not to take any shots at Chris or Rihanna or to take sides in any way, but it’s really not cool. It’s not funny at all anymore. That’s why there won’t be no more references to that from me in any way.
To be honest, I think his statement bothered me more then the dumb video. Thanks for the apology and great that he isn’t going to make jokes about domestic violence anymore, but why not take a side? I think it is fairly obvious here what side we should all be taking. Even if she is loony in love with him, the rest of the world can still agree that he was wrong.
You think celebs are bad…. go read what Chris Brown’s crazy fans have to say.
Moonstruck Mommy
Other posts about Chris Brown and Rihanna:
Brown & Rihanna- it’s official… almost?
Chris Brown & Rihanna… back together????
Chris Brown & Rihanna… back together??? February 24, 2009
Posted by Moonstruck Mommy in Life.Tags: bow wow. neyo, celebrities, celebrity, Chris Brown, Chris Browne, Domestic violence, flo rida, Florida, ne-yo, People, Rhianna, Rihanna
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Chris Brown is sorry and might be trying for a reconciliation. He also showered Rihanna with gifts for her birhday. Diamonds, ipods, and flowers from his mom!! I hope that she will be smarter than a few gifts and a (maybe sincere) apology, but I guess we will see. It seems everyone else in the business wants to give their two cents as well–
Rapper Bow Wow, who is friends with Chris Brown, had this to say:
“I mean, being in the business, the first thing is ‘Ah, it’s false, another rumor, bloggers just wanting to have traffic to their site, but when the story was unfolding, it was kind of shocking to all. Chris is a good friend of mine. We’ve had the opportunity to tour together. And then Rihanna, she’s just a beautiful person. Period. Never done no wrong to nobody. At the end of the day I’ve always believed in whatever happens with people’s business… my mom always told me don’t get into. And the situation is so major, I think they just need their space and I think they need to deal with it… I’m praying for them both. Just shocking, I mean, we heard what happened, but we really didn’t get a visual for it. But I mean hey, man. The picture speaks for itself.”
Actually, I think this is probably one of the better responses that I have heard. He acknowledged that fact that it happened and is a bad situation, but said it wasn’t his business. I would have liked a little more Brown bashing, of course, but I am still mostly satisfied with what Bow Wow had to say.
Flo rida, on the other hand, pissed me off a little:
“Definitely. Her and Chris Brown- I met them and they are both great people. They definitely give music a good name because they are very talented. Preferably they can put aside their differences and get back to making hot music.”
WTF? How about some kind of mention of the horrible nasty job he did to her face. I may be too blunt, but he pretended like it was nothing… “their differences” are you kidding me? UPDATE: Flo rida did cancel a collaboration with Brown for his next album and I guess actions do speak louder then words, so thanks Flo rida!
R&B Singer Neyo, who is very close with Brown, talked to Rihanna before he made a statement:
“I wanted to talk to them before I made a comment, I spoke to Rihanna. She says she’s fine. She didn’t go into detail about what happened. I understand it’s a painful situation; I didn’t push. I saw the picture, That just really hurt me to my heart, man. Again, I still don’t know what happened, ’cause I haven’t had the opportunity to talk to Chris yet. But to take it to that level really hurt my heart. All I can say is, I’m praying for both of them. They’re both in my prayers. I haven’t had a chance to talk to Chris yet. I just wanna sit down and talk to that dude and just explain if he doesn’t understand: ‘That’s not something that’s excusable, bruh. You have to get a little smarter about whatever it is going on in your relationship. You have to get a little smarter about how you handle certain situations.’ I’m not going to crucify him. I’m not going to do that. That’s still my homeboy at the end of the day, For it to go to that level was wrong. I won’t say who was responsible. I won’t pick no sides. I’m just saying it was wrong it had to happen like that, and I’m praying for the both of them.”
I liked that he talked to Rihanna, but I do not like his comments about the situation. How can he go from saying that the pictures hurt his heart and that it is not excusable to saying he wont say who was responsible and that Chris is still his “homeboy”?? Those pictures ARE NOT OK!!! I don’t care how annoying she was acting about a text message it is NOT OK to hit, especially a woman.
Even if it comes out that she was swinging on him first, which I doubt, I still say he is wrong. Men can (usually) control/hold back a woman enough to not have to beat her up in “self-defense”. SO why aren’t these men coming down harder on Chris Brown. Probably because they know- either the couple will get back together or the public will forgive Brown. Sad.
On this web site, there is a poll asking if Rihanna should take him back or not. When I answered only 157 out of 268 people thought she should stay the hell away from him. 41% actually think he deserves a second chance from her!!! My worst fears have totally been confirmed… the world has gone completely insane.
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